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My 12-year-old came home sobbing last week after months of weight-shaming by classmates. The teacher’s “solution”? Forcing a hollow apology that only fueled more cruelty. When I demanded action, the vice principal shrugged: “Kids will be kids.”

But here’s the reality…

* ​Schools avoid suspensions (too costly, risks lawsuits) but offer no real alternatives like counseling or mentorship.
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* Parents defend bullies — one mom told me her son “just jokes around” despite evidence.

* ​Teachers are overwhelmed: Our district cut behavioral staff last year.

I’ve filed reports, joined PTA meetings, even contacted a youth advocate – but progress? Zero. ​

Parents: How do you escalate when schools gaslight victims?

Any legal or community resources that actually work?

Written and Published by Hype Hub ~ March 11, 2025